Talvar-movie review 


Talvar -The most controversial case reopenes . The story that sent shock waves across the country in March 2008 ,when Arushi Talwar a teenager was killed in her house with her parents sleeping in the room next door The case became the talk of the town after the discovery of the servant being killed too.But still the case was messed with the police ,with no proper investigation in the case ,the CBI ego wars also messed up the case further .This is the bitter truth of the country where nothing can be done the right way .The story was filmed and shown with neutral perspective and the star cast couldn’t get better with irfan khan & kokana Sen being part as the familiar faces .The 122 minutes story was directed very well by Megha Gulzar , produced by Vishal Bhardwaj .The movie also tell us how the country still hasn’t changed much in handling cases like these ,the recent example being Indrani Mukherji’s case .The story remained true while portraying the complete incident .

who are we ? 

  We are humans ,yes I know that .We have flesh around our bones ,we have features describing the way we look or appear .We have a mind that’s not our own ,I mean just think about it ,we look at things and speak about it to others ,we hear arguments but don’t often give our opinion .Or do we ?we are confused to think what to do ? we describe things our eyes see ,and rarely speak what are mind says .We believe myths which haven’t been proved , and told by a third person .We become stupid when others are watching or become reserved we change according to situation We are ourself only when we are alone .We agree with 90% of the people and disagree with the 10% since majority wins .But at the same time believe nothing is impossible because 10% have done it .

We live to tell share stories ,which change every time we tell them .

We are afraid of making mistakes ,yet give examples of how mistakes can occasionally take us to the right path.

We want freedom but still are not willing to be alone .

We believe in truth ,what we think is the truth .

We don’t think about ourself as intelligent ,stupid ,crazy or dumb until we have been told by somebody and we start believing in it .

We have role models ,who are criminals ,yet we want to be a hero .

We keep telling other people who dream ,come back to reality .But we still want to dream .

We want to rule the world ,but aren’t willing to be ruled .

We want to change the world ,yet can’t change ourself’s.

Who are we actually ?

summer experience !!

These 20 days working with MTV INDIA’S NEXT TOP MODEL’S  was an experience ,worth sharing and so let me tell you about the behinds the scene action that go on before we finally air the show on television ,There is a lot of co-ordination thats needs to be looked into ,right from the production team to knowing  exactly how many cameras would be needed for the show,the sound for input and output ,and that’s not all what time shift is needed ?,will it be a 12 hour shift if its 12 hour shift ,when does it start .The co-odination for the guest judges ,what time is the car needed to be sent ,what time are the expected to arrive ,what are their requirements ,also the co-ordination for the lighting where does the light needed to be placed ,how light is needed for the perfect shots ,the costumes colours that might or might not suit the background ,The size and design for the setting for the art direction team to make the sets where the maths that you learnt comes in use .If  you thought this is all ?think again ,the number of people today on the sets  required are from caterers for food to analyzing the, cost to  be added on daily bases with cancellation of any shoot ,These  are the  few of the points .But the most important ones are  Time management to get things rolling on time and not just getting blank footage of nothing happening to the rehearsals to get the perfect output .And now here it comes the most basic requirement which we keep hearing  wheres the script ? A script to outline exactly whats happened in the day and dialogues to have the catch phrases for the challenges being summarized .Oh!!! how could  I forget this the moments of all the shoots being stalled for conflicts of interest just because we hit the wrong notes!! any guesses what this is ? EGO ,yes being egoistic for all the wrong reasons ,oh!! might be the right reason for the one who felt hurt .If you are egoistic you cannot be in this field because here ,we are a team working to live one mans dream .
And to conclude all that glitters is not gold ,and being transparent and having effective communication skills are much needed here .

Badlapur movie review !!!

Badlapur realeased today .Its about how after robbing a bank these two robbers get into the car and shoot the lady (yami gutam)
And when the husband (Varun Dhawan )gets the news he is all set to take the revenge of his wife and sons muder .and so the story begins .
The antagonist Nawaz zuddin has done a great job as usual with some light moments to laugh off .
The theme being centred around revenge and the plot being how his anger of his wife and kids death forces him to look for the killer .
The film quite predictable in the second half ,when you see the revenge being taken by the actor (Varun dhwan ) Raghu and the movie din’t seem long .the director sriram Raghavan who also made Johnny gaddar and the last one being agent Vinod has done a wonderful job of telling a story from which there is so much to learn and another important highlight if we repeat something again and again and say it convincingly ,there are probalitites it will be taken as the truth .
The background score was like an intense movie and since it not a regular masala movies there weren’t songs .The music as I read somewhere is a complete love manual and you think about it it is got the music of being in a depressed state of mind which the movie has focused .
The female actors(huma Qureshi )(Divya Dutt)(Radhika Apte ) just dint have much to do but the male actors were never out of the role the risk might must have just paid of for Varun Dhawan here .
The movie might be difficult to digest for Varun Dhawan fans ,movie buffs but it will pick up with the word of mouth .

One night stand/Date rape 

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The peer pressure can sometimes lead to circumstances, which can change your life within few seconds of the moment.

The teens too can be a difficult time for the guy & girls because it’s here where a lot of hormonal change that happens which in biological terms known as puberty and teens phase is known as the adolescent. Here I talking about this time and later in life when we hunt for a partner desperately but we might not really know what we are in for. Is it just the mind saying I have found somebody to show off to my friends and then the guy taking advantage? Or is it mutual admiration from both ends that see a future in the relationship if not in the long run but in the short run till you find the right one. Sometimes to find a companion is good enough. One can’t hit a bull’s eye in a go. So you keep trying by going out on date. And this also helps you fulfill your sexual desires. Like the girl who kissed a thousand toads before she met her charming prince. But are being used in your pursuit to find your Mr Right.

You might not know the answer until a situation arises and you might be taken advantage off especially when you are a girl. A blind date or a one-night stand can lead you to a disaster. This happened  to friend of  mine. She was very excited to meet this guy who she met in a chatroom. She bought a new dress to impress him since he claimed he was a son of a millionaire. They had dinner at a restaurant and then he got her drunk to the core at a pub. As an unexpected turn she was forced to fulfill his dirty sexual desires. She was too weak to retaliate. She was made to feel ugly almost like a whore. Her dreams, her youthful charm, her innocence, they all crashed in that one hour of extreme sexual molestation. She was looking forward to a healthy romantic relationship but she could barely walk out of the apartment that she was taken to by this self-proclaimed millionaire son. She was in physical pain but more of emotional trauma since she felt abused and emotionally cheated. So friends be very careful… you could be next. You too could become a victim of date rape. It could be even your boyfriend who you are seeing for a long time. He could lose control of himself and treat you like a prostitute. He could force his ugliness down your throat. Don’t take it lightly cause the scars that remain may torment you for a long long time. So stand up for your rights as a girl, as a woman. Don’t succumb to exploitation of any sorts just out peer pressure or to look socially uptight. A date is a romantic evening to share love and not to be used like an object of physical abuse or to pass on emotional trauma. Live to love and make love. Don’t make a love a means of living.

For more tips on finding love and your soulmate read the romantic caper novel Tiger Mates…

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