Category: Music the life

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Friendship !!

Making a friend ,these days has become easier than ever before, and boasting of having X number of friends on a particular social networking site or on some photo sharing app and many other places has made it clear that we have quite a large number of friends wherever we go .

Some of us are so friendly that we can just make friends every second… while travelling ,on the job and just a place where we visit frequently But have we every given a though to maintaining friendship? ..in the true “sense of friendship ” has there been anyone who you must be friends with but find it taxing to keep your friendship and you’d rather keep in touch with them whenever you have a ” job needed to be done “and even if you have to do it or done it in the past don’t you find it challenging to maintain this friendship and do we as people seriously maintain our  childhood friendships,school friends or college friends because we want to be with them or we have to do it because they have been part of us while we were growing up ?

Can we ever maintain friendship with the friends we made ?
Can friendship with a friend who we meet after years , start from the same point and can everything still remain the same after the gap ?
Is making new friends the way of showing off how popular we are amongst the group ?or is it a way to avoid maintaining friendship with the old ones by making them jealous of your social circle .
Is making new friends more important than maintaining your friendship ties ?

Sibling rivalry or love ?

Today I just came across an interesting thought while sipping my coffee ,and overheard two people speak about…. How having a sibling (sister) can make any difference when it comes to behaving in front of a girl.,it’s a little difficult for me to write this because I have a sibling (sister) and don’t know how living without one would be like, but all I can say it’s a little easy to understand the other girls because I live with my sister ,I know you would say nobody can understand a girl but you can surely understand them a little better, about their
emotional needs and what they might like or dislike ,when is it a good time to speak to them and when to leave them ,it take years but I have grown up with my sister and her friends so I can understand what it might be like to be a guy with a sibling and understand the other girls .also a sibling (sister ) can give you a foundation of how to behave in front of girls
Imagine not having a sister just makes me wonder that I might just be a little more shy than I am now ,a little less confident and nervous when taking to girls

Child Abuse is killing our children

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Child abuse is a very broad term that is categorized into a few segments with physical, emotional and psychological trauma. It seems to be commonly associated within countries in Asia and even more in India, but why is child abuse like an epidemic in this world. Why are we people muted about abusing children? Will we see emotional abuse only a sign of growing up or are we really ever willing to give some time to the children to really understand them, to help them get out of this pain that can follow them through their entire life. Do we see the act of bulling a way of life in schools? Are we not are of the extent of harm that is caused by children who emotionally and physical abuse their fellowmates. They are doing in under the influence of their environment and the influences of society and media. But why should other children become the victims of their negative influences. As citizens, parents, brothers and sisters, why are we so ignorant about the abuse faced by children while they are growing up? Did we go through it that we also want are children to go through it? Are we taking it for granted that child abuse is way of life? Are we so uneducated or rather uncivilized? Is child abuse somewhere down responsible for a child being differentiated from being an extrovert to an introvert? Can child abuse affect the level of confidence in his or her professional life? Can Child abuse be a reason for broken love affairs or marriages with dysfunctional relationships?

Child abuse can effect a person life so much that it can virtual kill its inner self and overcoming can take a complete lifetime because past isn’t forgotten easily… it leaves its deep imprints! So lets not take our children for granted… lets not take our own selves for granted. What we speak of today will instill confidence in our own selves and in our family and in the society by and large. If you disagree to anything I say then simply go down you memory lane!

To find more insights into the pain and torment that children are going in the heart of our very nation- INDIA… as we read this…Read the novel Tiger Mates by the screenwriter of Don 2 and find out some answers… some jewels of knowledge and purpose that is hidden inside you…

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One night stand/Date rape 

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The peer pressure can sometimes lead to circumstances, which can change your life within few seconds of the moment.

The teens too can be a difficult time for the guy & girls because it’s here where a lot of hormonal change that happens which in biological terms known as puberty and teens phase is known as the adolescent. Here I talking about this time and later in life when we hunt for a partner desperately but we might not really know what we are in for. Is it just the mind saying I have found somebody to show off to my friends and then the guy taking advantage? Or is it mutual admiration from both ends that see a future in the relationship if not in the long run but in the short run till you find the right one. Sometimes to find a companion is good enough. One can’t hit a bull’s eye in a go. So you keep trying by going out on date. And this also helps you fulfill your sexual desires. Like the girl who kissed a thousand toads before she met her charming prince. But are being used in your pursuit to find your Mr Right.

You might not know the answer until a situation arises and you might be taken advantage off especially when you are a girl. A blind date or a one-night stand can lead you to a disaster. This happened  to friend of  mine. She was very excited to meet this guy who she met in a chatroom. She bought a new dress to impress him since he claimed he was a son of a millionaire. They had dinner at a restaurant and then he got her drunk to the core at a pub. As an unexpected turn she was forced to fulfill his dirty sexual desires. She was too weak to retaliate. She was made to feel ugly almost like a whore. Her dreams, her youthful charm, her innocence, they all crashed in that one hour of extreme sexual molestation. She was looking forward to a healthy romantic relationship but she could barely walk out of the apartment that she was taken to by this self-proclaimed millionaire son. She was in physical pain but more of emotional trauma since she felt abused and emotionally cheated. So friends be very careful… you could be next. You too could become a victim of date rape. It could be even your boyfriend who you are seeing for a long time. He could lose control of himself and treat you like a prostitute. He could force his ugliness down your throat. Don’t take it lightly cause the scars that remain may torment you for a long long time. So stand up for your rights as a girl, as a woman. Don’t succumb to exploitation of any sorts just out peer pressure or to look socially uptight. A date is a romantic evening to share love and not to be used like an object of physical abuse or to pass on emotional trauma. Live to love and make love. Don’t make a love a means of living.

For more tips on finding love and your soulmate read the romantic caper novel Tiger Mates…

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So what if am I gay/lesbian I am in love

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“Just look there see how they are sitting ,look look see how they getting close to each other ”
This is how the conversation was happenning when a Aunt witnessed seeing a lesbian couple in love .
Yes it can become very uncomfortable if you aren’t used to being around homosexual people but at the same time they did not choose to be like that ,they were not given a choice whether they wanted to be a male or female or rather be both of them at once .
They have the equal rights, all the benefits we get as either a male or female in are lifetime ,the privacy ,the jobs ,and an equal right of belongings to the earth and citizen of the country .They face too much of in -equality ,from a lot of people around them and so instead of making more fun about them we should try not being against them .
Let them be ,let them enjoy their time of being in love when they have found one ,let them be allowed to marry the one they want to live with .
Also why do we forget the designers not all but quite a few of them who’s design we aspire to own are all gays or lesbian ,so all I am saying is give them a chance to live , let them be free and let them  fly to the reach their destiny. If they are given absolute freedom they will enjoy their existence like all of us and find love and purpose in whatever they are doing.

To find your love and purpose check out the novel Tiger Mates written by the screenwriter of DON2.

Here is the link to buy it online:http://www.amazon.in/Tiger-Mates-Romantic-Caper-Novel/dp/1482836629/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1423129220&sr=8-1-fkmr0&keywords=TigerMates+by+amrish+shah